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F.R.I.E.N.D.S

To all the F.R.I.E.N.D.S fans out there!!

It’s September: The one with the Anniversary

Do read my article on F.R.I.E.N.D.S

https://www.eatmy.news/2020/09/heres-why-we-cant-stop-watching-frinds.html?m=1

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Why procrastinators procrastinate

Are you a procrastinator?

Do you procrastinate?

Read my article to know more about procrastination

https://www.eatmy.news/2020/08/why-procrastinators-procrastinate.html?m=1

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COVID 19 PANDEMIC

https://www.eatmy.news/2020/08/life-of-health-care-professionals.html

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Failure

Here’s a article on my views on how to overcome failure. Failure is something that each and every one of us have gone through.

Do try going through my article on how to overcome failure :))

https://www.eatmy.news/2020/08/here-are-some-tips-for-you-to-overcome.html

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Sunset

What’s better than Playing with the beach waves and watching sunset?

That orange sky. And the chill wind mixed with beach water slapping your face.

The feeling of peace within you.

And then the memories come back to haunt you. Yet, yet it’s the sunset which calms your mind.

That smile which the orange skies and beach waves bring :))

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BIRYANI

Biryani = Good Mood.

Feel moody? Let’s eat that yummy Biryani.

Biryani is Love

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IS IT OKAY IF I AM AN INTROVERT?


IS IT OKAY IF I AM AN INTROVERT?

Is it okay if I choose not to talk to people?

Is it okay if I purposely don’t want to attend someone’s call ?

Is it okay if I purposely don’t want to reply to someone’s text?

Is it okay if I prefer to sit at home and spend some time with myself every weekend after a long stressful week of College?

Is it okay if I am 21 and have never been to a  party ?

Is it okay if I am 21 and still need to get my parent’s permission before going out of my house?

And the answers to the above questions would be…….NO! ( Atleast that’s what the society has told me).

Hey! This is Sandhya. I’m 21, currently pursuing my medical profession.
Honestly, I wouldn’t want to lie or hide it.
I’M AN INTROVERT. YES, I AM.

Why does everyone want to hide it? Is it so bad to be called an introvert?

Being an introvert is as normal as being an extrovert.
People who belong to the 21st century are matured enough to understand gender equality , depression issues, female empowerment , obesity and racial issues and many more, but why aren’t they matured enough to understand that being an introvert is as normal as  being an extrovert?

Why is that, people are ready to help who are in depression but, they want to blame introverts for being so anti-social? Do they know that blaming the introverts for being actually them eventually makes them depressed ?

It’s like, people keep poking onto introverts asking them to constantly talk and open up, hangout often, be interesting, be funny.

GOSH, LET THEM BREATHE!
IT’S NOT A DISEASE!

Recently, I came across this true incident at my college , one my good friend came up to me saying, “Bro, I usually don’t want to make an attempt to talk to people because I feel people find me boring as I am an introvert, hence I prefer staying alone”. And apparently this friend of mine hasn’t told how she feels about this with anyone, you know why? Because each time she tried approaching even her best friend, she was ended up with replies like , “you need to talk. It’s your fault. It’s your problem. You have to change”. REALLY????!
Apparently she could approach only me because I’m an introvert too and she feels I’m the only one who can understand her issues.
MY EYES TEARED UP. My eyes just teared up hearing this. 

I’ll tell you another incident, which occurred just 2 days back.
Since it’s quarantine , everybody wants to video call right? A group video call with 10th standard school friends sounds so fun. So, my 4 friends and I thought we could video call someday. Among the 4 of us,one friend of mine, who is again an introvert, texted me personally saying, ” I’ll sttend the call, just incase not to look rude, I’ll tell “Hi” and I’ll say I’m busy and leave the call because eventually everyone is going to ask why am I so quiet and force me to talk”.

So, is it their fault that introverts feel this way?

Can we all let’s just normalise about being an introvert?
Let’s all just accept the way people are and be humble to them rather than making them feel low or should I say “BORING”?

There are many introverts who feel this way. Lets approach them, lets talk to them and let’s tell them sorry, sorry because the society is judging you because society is just too bored, sorry that being an introvert hasn’t really been normalised like gender equality, women empowerment, sex or public farts.
Let’s allbtell them that it’s okay. It’s totally okay if they don’t want to hang out, talk to people, text or attend calls or parties. It’s totally okay.
Let’s give them the space they want, and at the same time let’s not completely ignore them. Let’s make them feel comfortable the way they are and that, they don’t really have to change for others.
Let’s expand our brains ! Let’s grow up!
Let’s normalise Introvert behaviour as any other social cause!

Again, I’m proudly saying this, Yes, I am an Introvert and I’m proud of it 🙂

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RAIN

Rain rain go away??! Well really? Who doesn’t love rain?

I may not like playing around and getting wet in the rain but I love the weather.

That dull not-so-bright weather. Where all of us sink into deep thoughts.

Scrolling through your gallery. Seeing all those pictures that was clicked 5-6 years back. The memories, looking at how ugly you looked, the people , who you wish you never parted away from.

Deep inside thinking about all those good times you spent with that person and wish you still had that person beside you right now.

Only if you could go back .

ONLY IF :))

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DREAM TO REALITY!

LET’S WORK HARD UNTIL OUR REALITY SOUNDS BETTER THAN OUR DREAM!

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Quarantine

Hey!

So looks like this quarantine all of us have got some time to overthink?

It’s okay.

It’s okay if someone you love hasn’t loved you back.

It’s okay if you haven’t started studying yet but your friend has already half through preparing for UG/PG entrance exams

It’s okay if you haven’t learnt anything to cook

It’s okay if you have been just scrolling instagram the whole day.

It’s okay if you haven’t been productive at all.

It’s totally okay.

Cause all the above things I just said…..is me :))

I have been overthinking and feeling so unproductive while everyone around me is like “I did this, I did that” etc etc. You don’t have to be them…cause who’ll be you then?

At the end of the days guys, it’s us who gotta change our thought process….no one is gonna do it for us, not our parents , no our best friends, not our partner, it’s US.

Let change our thoughts. This quarantine is not a test to see who has been productive and who hasn’t. No it’s not.

Above all, all that we gotta be in the end of the day is ….a kind human with a helping heart :)))

AND THERE THIS IS MY FIRST BLOG.